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Decluttering your closet is about so much more than the clothes, shoes, and accessories!

Let’s hang out for a bit in my favorite place, my closet, and talk about something that’s become a regular routine in my life—cleaning out the closet. And I hope it’s something you consider making a regular part of your life, too.

Now, cleaning out your closet might seem like it’s just about getting rid of clothes that don’t fit anymore, but trust me, it goes much deeper than that. It’s really about creating a space that reflects who you are right now, not who you used to be or who you think you should be.

The first step? Get rid of anything that doesn’t fit. If it’s too big or too small, it doesn’t belong in your everyday getting-dressed space. Why? Because you deserve to start your day by choosing from clothes that fit the body you’re living in right now. No guilt, no shame—just clothes that make you feel good.
And speaking of feeling good, let’s talk about those clothes that fit but just don’t make you feel great. You deserve to feel confident and capable every day, and that’s hard to do if you’re wearing something that drags you down. So if there’s anything in your closet that gives you even a hint of that icky feeling, it’s time to let it go. No excuses, no holding on just because you spent money on it. If it’s not serving you anymore, it’s time to move on.
Finally, let’s address the hardest part—getting rid of clothes that are still in good shape but just aren’t your vibe anymore. Maybe your style has evolved, and that’s okay! In fact, it’s more than okay—it’s a sign that you’re growing, changing, and embracing who you are becoming. So give yourself permission to let go of anything that doesn’t reflect who you are today, even if it once was a favorite.

Remember, this process is about more than just cleaning out a physical space. It’s about making room in your life for who you are now and who you’re becoming. So take a deep breath, dive into that closet, and start creating a space that truly reflects you.

Lifestyle Travel

travel day problems…and a week in Lucca, Italy

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Packing & Travel

The Art of Travel Toiletries: Maintaining Self-Care on the Go

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In a world that often demands us to juggle numerous responsibilities, being labeled as “high maintenance” can sometimes carry negative connotations. However, what if we redefined the term and associated it with something positive? I am an advocate for self-care and an experienced traveler and my interpretation of being “high maintenance” and how it translates into gracefully managing my toiletries while on the move might not be what you expect.

For me, being a “high maintenance” woman doesn’t mean demanding others cater to my needs; it means prioritizing self-care and understanding the significance of taking care of oneself to be capable of fulfilling multiple roles. The concept resonates with the idea that you can’t pour from an empty cup. To me, this is the essence of high maintenance – ensuring I’m at my best to be there for others in my life.

In my video, I delve into my travel toiletry essentials, explaining that feeling your best during travel is about maintaining your routine, even when space is limited. I introduce you to an array of tools that have revolutionized my approach to packing toiletries. One of my favorites is the airless pump bottles, which allow me to decant my skincare products efficiently. My technique of tapping the bottle to eliminate air bubbles is particularly useful, ensuring the products remain effective.

My favorite bottles come in different sizes – 15ml, 10ml, and 5ml – each catering to specific needs. I discovered that certain sizes worked better for certain products, striking a balance between packing efficiency and product use. However, be careful with them because airless bottles can become compromised if dropped, affecting the pump mechanism.

I also showcase my favorite silicone squeeze bottles for shampoo and conditioner. They are flexible for adjusting the amount of product needed, making them ideal for various trip lengths. I explain what works best for me – knowing this may not resonate with everyone, but I still believe these are the best bottles on the market.

One of the most important factors to consider when traveling with toiletries is preserving product efficacy. Recognizing that not all skincare products fare well outside their original packaging, I use plastic cosmetic jars to hold thicker creams and balms. By doing so, I ensure my self-care routine remains effective and my skin feels its best, regardless of where I am in the world.

In a world that often emphasizes productivity and efficiency, it’s important to prioritize self-care without apology. My travel toiletry tips showcase that maintaining self-care routines while on the road doesn’t have to be a hassle. With the right tools and a thoughtful approach, anyone can embody the positive essence of being “high maintenance” – taking care of oneself to better care for others.

Wardrobe

Discovering Your Perfect Capsule Wardrobe: The Different Concepts

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Are you tired of standing in front of a closet filled with clothes, yet feeling uninspired and overwhelmed? If so, it might be time to explore the world of capsule wardrobes. In today’s post, we’ll dive into a couple capsule wardrobe concepts. These concepts offer you a path to authentic confidence and everyday inspiration in your outfit choices.

1. The Minimalist Capsule Wardrobe: Simplify Your Style

When you think of capsule wardrobes, the minimalist approach might come to mind. In this concept you are working with a carefully curated selection of pieces for a specific period. Ideal for those overwhelmed by clutter or looking to embrace a more minimalistic lifestyle, this concept helps you focus on quality over quantity.

The minimalist approach aligns with the principle of “less is more.” By selecting around 37 versatile items, including clothing, accessories, and shoes, you can effortlessly create a variety of outfits for three months. The goal is to declutter and detach from excess, making way for a simpler, more intentional wardrobe.

The blog, Un-fancy, is the perfect place to start building out your minimalist capsule wardroble.

2. The Use Everything Capsule Wardrobe: Maximizing Your Collection

This is my unique approach of cycling through my entire collection of clothing regularly. This concept allows me to utilize my existing clothing and accessories to the fullest. By rotating pieces, I ensure that each item gets its deserved spotlight. This concept is perfect for those who own a larger collection but want to make the most of what they have.

My strategy is to select items for the next cycle before storing away the previous ones, ensuring a fresh outlook every time. I emphasize that this method helps me identify pieces I no longer resonate with, making it easy to let go and donate them.

3. The Life Stage Capsule Wardrobe: Adapting to Transitions

Life is full of transitions, and your wardrobe should evolve accordingly. This concept of having capsules designed to support you during significant life changes; whether it’s a career shift, maternity, weight change, or moving to a new climate, a life stage capsule wardrobe can simplify your style during these transitions.

This concept emphasizes the importance of dressing for the life you’re living now by adapting your wardrobe to match your changing circumstances. For example, a successful career wardrobe may not serve you well in retirement, where a fresh perspective on your personal style is relished.

In Conclusion

The world of capsule wardrobes offers a range of concepts to suit various preferences and needs. Whether you’re drawn to minimalism, aiming to maximize your existing collection, or seeking guidance through life transitions, there’s a concept that resonates with you.

These insights provide a valuable roadmap for building a wardrobe that aligns with your authentic self and empowers you to face each day confidently. By exploring these capsule wardrobe concepts, you can embark on a journey of self-discovery through your style choices. So, take a moment to reflect on what concept speaks to you, and begin crafting a wardrobe that truly resonates with your unique essence.

Wardrobe

Keeping it classy in super hot weather

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Hey there 🙂 Today, I was all set to film a video about my elevated staple pieces for the late summer and early fall season. But guess what? It’s just too hot to handle! Seriously, the weather forecasters say there’s no relief in sight. So, I’m shifting gears to talk about how to stay classy and cool in this scorching weather.

First things first, let’s not compromise on style just because it’s sweltering outside. I still want to feel put together and confident, and I’m sure you do too. The key is choosing the right fabric. I live on the Texas Gulf Coast, so I know all about hot and humid climates. Linen is my holy grail fabric during these times. It’s breathable and perfect for staying comfortable. Natural fiber fabrics like cotton blends also work wonders in the heat. They just feel so much better on the skin than synthetic fabrics.

When it’s too hot for heavy layers, I turn to monochromatic outfits. I can’t explain it, but wearing matching tones just elevates the whole look for me. Today, I went for an ivory linen top with matching shorts, but it’s still lacking that classy touch. Time to work some magic!

To avoid frumpiness, I always focus on defining my waist. It instantly transforms the outfit and boosts my confidence. I use belts to achieve this, and a wider belt gives even more definition. With the addition of a belt I’m feeling better already!

Now, let’s talk accessories. When it’s boiling outside, the last thing I want is a necklace sticking to my skin. So, I go for statement earrings instead. They add flair without causing discomfort. A little trick I love!

Of course, an outfit isn’t complete without the right shoes and bag. I opt for slip-on braided sandals for both comfort and style. And to add a pop of color, I chose a mustard yellow vegan leather bag. It’s subtle yet makes a difference.

But not everyone is a fan of shorts, and that’s okay. I’ve got another look for you! I love embracing my classic style with a boho twist. So, I picked a loose-fitting linen cotton blend outfit. To avoid looking too shapeless, I tied the shirt at the waist, giving it a more elevated feel. Earrings are a go-to, and these abalone shell dangly ones fit the bill perfectly.

To keep it comfortable, I still go for the same comfy braided sandals. And to add some contrast, I chose a structured bag. It complements the outfit without being too overpowering and gives me just the right amount of contrast to feel myself.

Now, I understand this outfit might be a bit too boho for you – so I’ve got another option!

I’ve got an outfit for those who prefer pants but want to stay cool. A navy blue linen top with matching joggers feels like wearing jammies while looking chic. The draw string waist gives some natural waist definition, which I adore.

Remember, staying comfortable doesn’t mean sacrificing style. With the right fabric, smart accessories, and a little styling magic, you can conquer the heat while still feeling like the confident, authentic you.

Before I go, let me remind you that you don’t have to buy a whole new wardrobe every season. Embrace the capsule wardrobe concept and mix and match your pieces. It’s sustainable, practical, and keeps your style fresh without breaking the bank.

I’ll be back soon with more style tips and adventures. Until then, stay cool, my lovelies! Bye y’all!

Packing & Travel

The Essential Items for a Vacation to a Warm Climate

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Are you planning a vacation to a warm climate? Whether you’re headed to a tropical beach or exploring a sunny city, packing the right essentials can make a world of difference in your comfort and style. As travel enthusiast I’ve put together a list of items you do not want to forget to ensure you have the best time under the sun.

White Linen Button-Up Shirt: My first must-have item is a versatile white linen button-up shirt. This piece is a true wardrobe workhorse, as it can be paired with pants, shorts, worn as a swimsuit cover-up, or layered over dresses and tank tops. Its breathable fabric makes it perfect for staying cool while still looking chic.
Linen Pants: When visiting warmer climates, linen pants are a game-changer. Opt for a black linen trouser, navy blue jogger, or white linen joggers for ultimate comfort and style. Linen allows complete airflow, keeping you cooler than shorts while still providing coverage from the sun.
Leisure Set: I recommend bringing a comfortable yet stylish leisure set on your trip. Look for lightweight materials like textured knit for a cozy and effortless outfit option. A leisure set can double as yoga wear and is perfect for relaxing mornings or casual outings.
Comfortable Sandals: Footwear is crucial, especially when you’ll be doing a lot of walking. Invest in a pair of comfortable sandals with a suede footbed, like the iconic Vionic sandals I love. These offer support, stability, and cushioning, keeping your feet happy during long walks.
Swimsuit: Lastly, don’t forget your swimsuit! Embrace your body and wear it with confidence. Whether it’s a two-piece, one-piece, tankini, or swim skirt, what matters most is that you feel comfortable and enjoy your time at the beach or pool.

Packing these essentials with a plan will ensure you have everything you need for a fabulous vacation. I recommend using packing planner worksheets to organize your belongings efficiently and avoid any last-minute regrets. The worksheets can be found for free in the description of the planner workbook linked here. Now that you have the perfect packing list, you can focus on making the most of your warm-climate adventure.

Remember, the goal is to be present in the moment and fully enjoy your vacation. Don’t worry about what others might think or how you look in your swimsuit. Embrace your body, wear that swimsuit proudly, and create beautiful memories.

In conclusion, preparing for a vacation to a warm climate requires a mix of practical and stylish items. A white linen button-up shirt, linen pants, a leisure set, comfortable sandals, and a swimsuit are the essential elements that will serve you well during your trip. Pack with a plan, carry your confidence, and make the most of your time in the sun. Happy travels!

Packing & Travel

The Ultimate Guide to Efficiently Packing Your Personal Carry-On for a Smooth Flying Experience

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Are you planning to fly soon? If so, packing your personal carry-on item strategically can greatly impact your overall flying experience. In this comprehensive guide, I’ll walk you through my personal packing techniques to ensure a stress-free journey. Welcome to my channel! If you’re new here, I’m Lori, and if you’re a returning viewer, it’s great to have you back!

Let’s dive right into the art of efficient packing for travel. While traveling can be enjoyable, it can also be overwhelming. To combat this, it’s crucial for me to have all the essentials I need while keeping my personal item lightweight and comfortable. Today, I’ll share exactly what I pack in my personal item bag, which may inspire you to optimize your packing as well.

Bag Selection:

First and foremost, choosing the right bag is essential. I’m a huge fan of the Flight Go backpack for its impeccable design. It offers the perfect balance between organization and space. With additional pockets for easy organization, side pockets for water bottles, and a secure hidden pocket at the back, it ticks all the boxes for me.

Must-Have Essentials:

When packing my personal item, I always prioritize my passport and wallet. I keep my passport in a secure pocket at the back of my bag, close to my body. This way, it remains safe and easily accessible. Similarly, I store my wallet in the same area to ensure its security.

Next, I ensure that I have all my necessary toiletries and grooming items conveniently within arm’s reach. These include a hairbrush, hair tie, deodorant, toothpaste, toothbrush, dental floss, lip balm, sunscreen (in powdered form for convenience), and a solid hand lotion. I also carry a pack of tissues and some Advil for unexpected headaches.

To ensure hassle-free security checks, I pack all my toiletries in solid forms. This way, I don’t need to remove them from my bag during screening, as I keep my liquids bag in my carry-on luggage in the overhead bin.

Hygiene and Comfort:

Maintaining hygiene during air travel is crucial. That’s why I always carry sanitizing wipes to clean my tray, seat, and the surrounding area. It’s a small step that goes a long way in preventing illness while on vacation.

Additionally, I attach a hair clip to the bag’s handle for easy access. It’s a handy tool for keeping my hair in place when needed.

Technology and Entertainment:

Staying connected and entertained is a priority for many travelers. To ensure my devices stay charged, I carry an Anchor power block and a single charging cord that can charge both my phone and watch simultaneously. This setup fits perfectly in the side pocket of my bag.

I also include a phone holder that attaches to the tray or seat pocket. It allows me to comfortably watch movies or shows on my phone during the flight.

Additional Items:

Inside my bag, I always carry a book or a notebook for jotting down thoughts or simply enjoying a good read. I dedicate a specific pocket to hold it securely.

To combat the often chilly airplane cabin, I pack a Turkish towel or a blanket scarf that doubles as a beach towel or yoga mat. This versatile item ensures I stay warm and comfortable throughout the flight.

If I’m wearing contacts, I always have my glasses within reach in case of any discomfort. Having clear vision is essential for a pleasant journey.

Lastly, I consider noise-canceling headphones a game-changer for an enhanced flying experience. While not a necessity, they greatly contribute to my comfort and enjoyment during flights.

By following these packing techniques, I’ve significantly improved my flying experience. Each item I include in my personal carry-on bag serves a purpose and contributes to my overall comfort and convenience while traveling. However, it’s important to note that personal preferences may vary.

If you’re unsure about what to pack, I hope this guide has provided valuable insights and inspiration. You can find a complete list of the items mentioned in the video in the description box below. Thank you for joining me today as I prepare for my next adventure.

Links to products I always pack in my personal item bag

Wardrobe

Creating a Personalized Summer Capsule Wardrobe: My Rules, My Style

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Today I want to share my unique approach to creating a summer capsule wardrobe. Dressing well shouldn’t mean breaking the bank or sacrificing the environment, which is why I’ve developed my own rules for building a versatile wardrobe that reflects my personal style. In this video, I’ll show you my carefully curated 24-piece capsule wardrobe that I’ll be wearing for the next 60 days. Let’s dive in!

Building a Capsule Wardrobe:

A capsule wardrobe allows me to maximize the use of my existing clothes and save money in the process. However, my capsule wardrobe differs from traditional concepts in a few key ways. Firstly, I switch out the contents every 60 days to keep things fresh and inspiring. Secondly, I establish my own rules based on what works best for me.

My Capsule Wardrobe Rules:

One of my top rules is that each of the ten tops I select must be able to be paired with at least five bottoms from my capsule. This ensures versatility and allows for effortless outfit combinations. I also strive to avoid repeating items from previous capsules, although I must admit I occasionally break this rule. I want to rotate through my clothing and keep things exciting.

Additionally, I exclude shoes, bags, and accessories from my capsule wardrobe. This way, my entire collection remains accessible and can be mixed and matched freely, regardless of the capsule I’m working with.

Defining My Style:

My personal style can be described as classic with a twist, reflecting my casual lifestyle on the Texas Gulf Coast. When adding new pieces to my collection, I prioritize well-made, high-quality items with timeless designs. While I occasionally embrace trends, I tend to gravitate towards classic pieces that stand the test of time.

Exploring My Capsule Wardrobe:

Let’s take a closer look at the components of my capsule wardrobe. Starting with tops, I have a range of options that include a long-sleeved linen button-up, a cotton cami with interesting trim, a white knit halter, and a white eyelet embroidery shirt. I’ve also incorporated trendy pieces like a bright Barbie pink V-neck sweater and a beige top with eyelet details.

For bottoms, I lean towards neutrals for easy pairing. I’ve chosen items such as white Lily Pulitzer skorts, white jeans, and navy blue linen shorts. I’ve also included a fun pair of printed rayon joggers, navy blue linen joggers, black linen trousers, and pink linen shorts to add variety and personality to my outfits.

To complete my capsule, I’ve added four dresses that offer different styles and lengths, including a black halter midi dress, a black and white halter dress, a navy blue rayon midi dress, and a colorful halter dress.

Though I enjoy a casual lifestyle, I often like to incorporate a lightweight third piece to elevate my outfits. For this capsule, I’ve chosen a camel-colored linen jacket with a hood and a versatile white blazer that effortlessly adds sophistication to any look.

Conclusion:

By setting my own rules and carefully selecting versatile pieces, I’ve created a wardrobe that allows me to feel confident and inspired every day. Remember, fashion is all about expressing your individuality, so don’t be afraid to create your own rules and curate a wardrobe that reflects your unique style. Thanks for joining me, and until next time, take care!